Oklahoma weddings are known for their rustic elegance, ample food and superb service.  POSTOAK excels at all three – detailed planning, a variety of outdoor settings for the ceremony, and traditional to contemporary receptions.  Chef Damien Jacob excels at providing formal plated affairs or casual buffets.  With  guest lodges and leisure activities, plan the whole weekend and enjoy all POSTOAK has to offer- overnight accommodations, rehearsal dinner, bridal luncheon,  a fabulous ceremony and reception, and a bon voyage breakfast.  POSTOAK can be your local or out-of-town destination wedding!

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“​We were searching for a venue that would allow us to have both the ceremony and reception indoors, at the same venue, and in a large of enough space for our 200 or so guests​ and PostOak was the perfect spot.​ ​From the night before to the morning after, our guests and wedding party had an awesome time. The ​retreat offers private lodges, which ​were fun for our guests the night before the wedding and also offered a safe place for them to stay after celebrating the ​evening. ​

On our wedding day, the staff was extremely professional and eager to make sure all of our ​needs were met. ​We chose bold colors for our Art Deco theme and this venue was the perfect choice to bring our vision to life.” -Sandra & Joel, Fall 2017



Let our dedicated wedding coordinator help you choose the perfect outdoor wedding site and determine the best reception design. Each bride receives personal planning advice, four hours of set-up time, a bridal dressing room complete with mirrors and dress racks the day of, and, a complimentary rehearsal space prior to the wedding. Brides are welcome to come early for photo shoots as POSTOAK has a variety of stunning outdoor backdrops that photographers love.

Add a bar-b-que rehearsal dinner down at the Pole Barn and overnight lodging so family and friends can enjoy one another’s company and be ready for the big day. While the wedding party is getting ready, the family can swim, fish, hike, go zip-lining or just relax in anticipation for the ceremony and reception.


Indoors or out – packages include setup and tear down of chairs, one hour of rehearsal time and plenty of advice from POSTOAK’s wedding coordinator. Want to add drama to an indoor ceremony?  Enhance the setting with  customized lighting and draping.

Overlooking the Tulsa skyline, Sunset Ridge is perfect for a large number of attendees. No matter what time of day, the eastern sky is a beautiful backdrop.
Situated by the Meadows and with a quaint wooden bridge to Willow Lake, The Island is a sweet spot for couples wanting a unique outdoor venue. Guests can view the ceremony from shore and still have a great view.
Follow the lighted path to the covered shady spot just steps away from the Lodges for a distinctive rustic venue that you can call your own. We’ll hang a few drapes on the wooden poles but let the tree-lined path and woods be the background for your ceremony.

From 50 to 350, POSTOAK can accommodate intimate dinners to huge receptions. Inclusive packaging allows for simple planning and budgeting. Reception prices include:

Banquet space
Set up and tear down (we don’t want you to lift a finger!)
Dance floor
Tables, chairs, flatware, china and glassware
A wide selection of linen colors and napkins
Punch station & cake cutting service
Bartenders and servers
Plated or Buffet Dinner or Hors d’oeuvres Reception

*Add ons include cocktail hors d’oeuvres, bar service (beer, wine, cocktails), champagne toast, late night snacks, and those special custom amenities unique to your wedding.

Reception Wedding Space
Aspen Room

Enhanced by the flagstone wall, view of the pool and waterfall, and sliding glass door to the Oaks at Aspen, this room is perfect for receptions less than 80.

Evergreen Room

Flanked by windows on three sides with a sliding glass door to the Oaks at Evergreen, couples love this room for its ample space and overflow capabilities to the outdoors and the Great Room.

Dining Room

Brides love to decorate the 2-story fireplace in this room filled with rustic charm. From the wood floors to the craftsman style chandeliers, the Dining Room opens to the Great Room for overflow soft seating and easy access to the bar.

Great Room

Used primarily for overflow or ceremonies, this room can be added for a premium if used as the main reception room. Ceiling high windows, skylights, wood accents and a 2-story stone fireplace provide a rustic elegance.

The Evergreen Room, Great Room, and Dining Room together are perfect for weddings up to 350 guests.